My brother won’t stop bulling me please help?

My brother is being a bully to me every wear He 16 and I’m only 13. My brother says stuff to me “your a waste a space and a fat @ss lost cause”
and he never let my talk to my friends on the bus he say “ALLAN GET YOUR @SS TO THE FRONT OF THE BUS NOW BEFORE I GET MY KNIFE!” one time i call him an idiot so he pushed me off my skateboard and threw the skateboard into my stomach knocking the wind out of me and this all happened right beside my girlfriend and she dumbed me for that I tryed tell my mom and dad but it just making him hurt him even more how can I get him to stop he even said once that when I went to that gym he yelled to my friend “Allan gone because he tired of me calling he a fat @ss” how can i get my brother to stop
today he said “all not gonna get a date to the dance he like men” in front of my mom and dad and grand mother and they didn’t even care and i was just sitting there wait for sombody to help

oh my dear lordy!
this is way past the degree of bullying!
you know, one day you could get seriously hurt!
i would recommend going to your guidance counsler. guidance counslers can get parents involved if neccesary, and surely your parents will listen to her/him and come up with a solution to stop this abuse. yes, it is abuse, because your brother is hurting you in ways that could possibly injure or kill you. your brother is probably insecure, and i get the feeling that he’s involved in some violent gang, or he probably hangs with a bad group.
here are my other suggestions:
1) aviod him AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE
2)don’t try to stand up to him because i get the feeling you could be seriously injured
3) get in contact with an adult you know you can trust, and who also cares about you. tell them aout your brother, and ask them if they could talk to your parents for you
4) always keep yourself surrounded by a tight group of friends or family members
5) when doing regular activities, try to do them somewhere in someplace where your brother wouldn’t suspect you to be
6) hang round with your parents (or hang someplace where you can easily contact your parents) your brother surely won’t bother you with them around
7) GET HELP FROM AN ADULT OR GUIDANCE COUNSLER IMMEDIATELY!
your brother is only doing this because he knows that it will get a reaction out of you. ignore him, and sooner or later he’ll get irritated and will stop trying at all. try to be friendly towards him, how ever hard or repulsive that might seem. try to call a family meeting, or talk to your brother about the way he is treating you. remember, a slow approach is the best.
you can do this!

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